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Social Norming for Ultrarunners
There seem to be an inordinate amount of articles, Ted Talks, and research about the importance of sleep right now –to which I say:
There also seem to be an inordinate amount of pictures of people training in beautiful places. So here is a picture of the gate I rolled under at 5:30 this morning to run hills with a friend.
And here is my response to all the articles and videos about essential core workouts for runners.
(My abdominal muscles are fatigued in this picture.)
This is not jealousy, envy, or grumpiness talking. It’s more about social norming.
From the Wikepedia:
“The social norms approach is founded upon a set of assumptions that individuals incorrectly perceive that the attitudes or behaviors of others are different from their own, when in reality they are similar. This phenomenon is known as pluralistic ignorance.[6] It is largely because individuals assume the most memorable and salient, often extreme, behavior is representative of the behavior of the majority.”
I just want to say “Hey!” to all you hoards who are also not doing this:
(Beautiful picture of my friend, New Balance teammate, and all-around wonderful person, Katie DeSplinter.)
Or this:
Or this:
Also, to all you people posting about how good you felt on your runs today… I felt like crap. I was excited when I briefly managed to break a 10-minute mile.
I’m so serious. (And my hair kind of looks like that right now.) (Also, my marathon PR is 2:54 and my 1oo-mile PR is 15:07.)
As my friend Mosi says, “Do Work.”
(I’m not sure how Mosi would feel about the fact that I’m hiding in the bathroom right now blogging while Eliot deals with a wailing Ruby…)
But really, that’s it, right? The work is the thing.
Here is a great Ted Talk compilation about Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs (despite the bit on sleep) that I think captures the reason we run ultras. If you can guess the bit I’m referring to, I have a really nice prize for you.
i say running fits into the purpose need. Running gives me purpose.
Purpose is good. I’m fishing for (what really spoke to me) something in the Sebastian Junger piece.
A mutual agreement, in essence, “I love these other people, more than I love myself”. Sebastian Junger
You should read or listen to Tribes by Seth Godwin
Yup. That’s it. And I’ll put Godwin on the treadmill playlist. Monica got to it first on FB though — so no prizes today. Soon though.
I think you are referring to the fact that those of us who pursue ultra are at the level of self-actualization because we have our other more fundamental needs met. It’s something we westerners in the developed countries are lucky to be able to pursue – for self-actualization.
The esteem level of needs seems to fit most ultra runners I know. If you look in the “simple psychology” definition there is even a trophy shown at that level. 🙂
Monica Morant wrote: this all comes up at a pretty poignant time since i’m still on the “no activity” list for another week and am about to flip over a table if i see one more pic or post about anybody else’s run, swim or bike
but when you’re forced to stop doing what you love, you’re reminded of why you love it. and that’s exactly it.
LOVE
COMMUNITY
SISTERHOOD
even though i do a lot of my running on my own and the trail/ultra community is not any community i ever expected to find myself in, it feels like home in ways nothing else can.
i also run to keep “the voices” at bay. so sorry everyone, but my social norm suggests that we’re also all a little cray cray”
That’s what I think too. Prize on it’s way to Monica.
This post is just the best thing ever. When my kids were little, I used to hide in the bathroom and do productive stuff besides pooping in there, too, to force my husband and kids to fend for themselves a little longer.
Thanks, Sarah! Eliot took up a lot of slack yesterday for sure. I was looking for a picture of Shalene Flanagan to put up in the garage next the the treadmill, but I might just put one of that sloth up. Might be more motivational…
Liza,
This post is fabulous. I appreciate the great pics of nice vistas that many people post but I almost feel obligated to post pics (like your gate) of the mundane things I run by every day just to keep some perspective for the hordes of runners out there who are similarly situated. I think I will. You’ve inspired me.
Thanks so much for the comment David!